Don’t play their game

Everybody is playing a game and sometimes they will take you into the field and push you to play it. If you do, there will be two possible results: you win the game or you lose it. Because it’s not your game, the probability that you lose is greater. They set the rules.

Leave it.

Not playing the game doesn’t mean you lose. That means you have your own rules and won’t let others drag you. Leave their game.